A co-worker of mine made a very astute comment to his subordinate the other day who’s new to managing people: “delegate the work, but don’t abdicate the responsibility.” It got me to thinking of my law days where clients would ask “what do you think?” about a non-legal question and I would have to respond (with my errors and omissions insurance company whispering in my ear) “well, what do you think?” and this went on for a couple of verbal volleys before both parties threw their hands up in the air. It wasn’t as if I was trying to avoid giving advice. It was the question asked was business based that the client should take responsibility for.
It sounds a little harsh but I am (was) the advisor. The client ultimately has to live with the consequences of the decisions made. So take an active interest in being responsible for it. Don’t try to push it off and not own it.
When times are tough, the easiest thing to do is to start pointing fingers. Recently, I have heard a ton of stories about bad financial advisors doing this and doing that or not doing this and not doing that and portfolios being wiped out etc.
But have you asked yourself what you could have done to mitigate against any potential loss? In certain cases, people have truly bad investment advisors who don’t act on instructions, are slow to respond (if at all) and basically don’t bother giving you any advice but sell, sell, sell. In other cases though, some of the wounds may have been self-inflicted.
Do you schedule a time to ask your advisor why your portfolio is returning what it is outside of the RSP season?
Do you demand their attention to answer your questions or talk you through your issues even if there is no trade at hand? Of course, they are busy. Everyone is busy. But, its your money. Be pushy if you must. Its your financial future and its better to be impolite and effective than polite and broke.
Do you actually read your statements in detail and then call to ask questions and educate yourself?
Of course there are bad brokers, the industry is stacked against the investor and no one has time. But the responsibility for your money ultimately lies with you. Certainly, if you feel like it, delegate the skill-set to skilled professional (not everyone has the acumen or time to be a do it yourself investor) but don’t make a mental note of saying: “Ok, Ellen manages my portfolio now. I don’t have to think about it anymore.”
Your thoughts lead to indifference and indifference allows advisors to treat you like crap since they know no one is watching.
Think of the delegating the task but not the responsibility this way: parents delegate the act of educating to professionals but good parents call the teacher to ask why the home-work is too challenging/not challenging enough, can the teacher do some tutorial work on a difficult subject, what is going to happen during a field trip. Good parents don’t say “Well Mr. Clifford is teaching math to Chris. I will never question Mr. Clifford about anything in Chris’ education.” That’s just plain fool-hardy.
Yet, why do many of us have the same attitude with money?



