Money Matters by Mom2KG

Posted by on March 31, 2009 in Mom2KG Columns

Our regular columnist is back for this month’s edition of her column.

Women need a lot of clothes. And shoes. Hair. Make-up. These things cost money, so make sure you budget and buy the right things. Need help? Here are my tips on making the most out of what you have.

Be organized

To make the most of your clothing collection, and your available closet space, you need to keep your threads properly organized. Every change of season, take last season’s clothes and store them somewhere. This goes for outerwear, accessories, casual and workwear.

Edit your wardrobe

I love de-cluttering, and my closet is no exception. Get rid of anything stained, out of date (nothing ever really comes back in again – Harry Rosen said that), ripped, too big or small, and anything you haven’t worn in a year. If a whole year has gone by, and you couldn’t find anywhere to wear that giraffe-print cotton tank, there’s a reason. Be honest. Toss it.

Take an appraising glance

Many stores offer styling advice, which often starts with a current-wardrobe consultation. An office tower I used to work in offered a free personal shopper service, and what I learned from her styling advice was invaluable.

Once you’ve de-cluttered and organized, look at what you have left. Now, what do you really need? At a minimum, every professional woman should have:

  • A classic trenchcoat and a very good wool winter coat
  • Great boots and leather gloves
  • Shoes: grey, black, red, brown – flats and heels. You can add a lot of pop to a wardrobe with just shoes, so splurging here is allowed – yes, buy those purple snakeskin stilettos (if they’re on sale and you’ll wear them).
  • Scarves and great jewellery – again, you get a lot of use from statement necklaces and good earrings.
  • High-end briefcase, plus a clutch and 1-2 good classic purses
  • Two black suits – one plain, one pinstripe. You can wear the pants separately, and of course black is a good staple that works with everything else.
  • Two more non-black suits, at least one with a skirt. Chocolate, navy, grey, camel and red – start with neutrals (yes, red can be a neutral)
  • Sheath suit dress with matching jacket-good for work and going for a drink
  • 1-2 blazers
  • Nicely-fitting sweaters and wraps – 2-5
  • Camisoles high enough to wear as a blouse
  • 2-3 crisp, white tailored shirts
  • 5-8 other blouses
  • 1-3 skirts and 3-5 trousers

Once you have these basics, you can wear them in all seasons, changing up the blouses under the suit, as well as the shoes and jewellery. When you can afford it, add in more trousers, skirts and suits. Unfortunately, women’s suit are often cut in trendy, up-to-the-minute styles, which are lovely, but only last you a year or two. Go for classic cuts to stock your wardrobe, then layer in unusual pieces.

Make-up and Hair

Get a great cut and visit the salon at least every eight weeks; more if you have short hair or complicated colour or highlights. Nothing looks less polished and professional than roots.

Also spend some money on make-up. Go to a make-up counter and ask for a full make-up application (often there is a minimum purchase fee, but it’s worth it). Practice at home as well. You don’t have to wear make-up, and I suppose there’s something very non-feminist about advising you to do so. But I take a post-feminist view of this and enjoy the perks of being female.

If you can afford a manicure on a weekly or monthly basis, that’s great. If not, invest in manicure tools and do this yourself at home.

Tips

  • Now is a great time to be a consumer. Look for and shop sale items only.
  • Stock up on gloves, belts, socks, and nylons
  • Most chain stores now have websites, and very often have e-mail subscriptions. Sign up to get deals and notifications of sales.
  • Don’t buy it if it really doesn’t fit. It will look horrible, you won’t wear it, and it will be a waste of money.
  • However, if it almost, almost fits, buy it and take it to a tailor. It’s a small, worthwhile cost.
  • Keep the receipts in your wallet. Don’t let the store put it in the bag – they know it will get lost easily and you won’t be able to return it!

6 Comments on Money Matters by Mom2KG

By Quick Lunar Cop on March 31, 2009 at 8:35 am

I usually enjoy the guests guest posts by Mom2KG, but I find the advice in this post ludicrous.

Nobody *needs* lots of clothes, shoes, haircare and make-up. You may *want* it, but that’s a big difference.

Also, make-up is not only a huge investment in money and time, but could be detrimental to your health as well. Why not reserve make-up for special occasions? Even then, try to go organic.

As for getting manicures on a weekly or monthly basis, I’m sure there are better use of your money.

My girlfriend only wears make-up for special occasions (and very little even then), but she’s always pretty. Nothing beats natural in my book.

By Mom2KG on March 31, 2009 at 9:35 am

By the way, TMW asked me about a comment he heard recently, that the current spring offerings are not-so-great. Poppycock. Shopping for good clothes is a time investment, so don’t go into stores when you’re rushed or are dragging your three kids. If you take your time to try on lots of things in a variety of sizes, you will find great pieces. I shop at Banana Republic almost religiously, and havn’t noticed any drop in quality. Also try J. Crew – great stuff, lots of sales, and wonderful telephone support if you’re worried about ordering off the Internet. I will admit I find summer lines a challenge (for example, I don’t like wearing sleeveless dresses in an office environment), but spring and fall lines are always reliable for year-round wear.

By Potato on March 31, 2009 at 9:54 am

“You can add a lot of pop to a wardrobe with just shoes, so splurging here is allowed”

Do I detect some rationalization from someone with a shoe problem?

By Mom2KG on March 31, 2009 at 4:04 pm

Haha to Potato! I have a decent number of shoes, but all purchased from stores like Payless! Nothing over $100 (except good winter boots), and even that is a stretch.

To Quick Lunar Cop: I used to wear little or no makeup. Then I had kids, and real life turned my flawless visage into a tired, lined face with “rosiness”, as my make-up person euphemistically put it. But yes, make-up is not required, and there are better ways to spend money than on a manicure, but it’s a nice treat. (Hint – buy your girlfriend a gift certificate for a manicure and see what happens.)

To the larger point, that my list of clothes is “required” – well, I beg to differ. Having more clothes gives one more options each day, and puts less wear on the clothes, making them last longer. If you only had one pair of jeans, they’d wear out very fast, compared to, say, 3 pairs worn on successive days and weekends. And some tops just do not go with all pants or skirts, so you need more in the rotation (perhaps men don’t actually have this issue?). I look at my clothes as part of my professional investment in myself – I’m not the first person to say you have to “look the part.”

Looking back, I should have specified that I’m envisioning this wardrobe for a professional office environment. No one who works at home needs 4 suits (but you still can’t go wrong with purple stilettos!).

By mfd on April 1, 2009 at 2:06 am

@Quick Lunar Cop – I have to disagree with that. My fiance is a teacher and she has two sets of close. A teacher set and a personal set. Sure the argument can be made that everyone has two sets of clothes (one for work and one for home) but how much cross-over do they they have between the two sets? For my fiance there is very little to no cross-over between her work and personal clothes. As well since its a public school its always cold in the winter and there is no air conditioning in the warmer months. Her wardrobe changes significantly between the seasons.

By TBC on April 6, 2009 at 12:32 am

I’m with Quick Lunar Corp. I’m a professional working 5 days a week, and my wardrobe is about half of that, plus no manicures and v. little makeup. And I actually do have only 1 pair of jeans that are heading into their third year. To each their own, but unlike Mom 2KG’s previous posts, this one seems a bit excessive and in need of a reality check.

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