Yesterday, I wrote about ways of saving money which is, in some respects, a prelude to today’s post. I have previously interviewed Alan Corey who became a millionaire before he was 30. One of his biggest strategy on reaching his goal was to save money- over 60% of his income through a wide variety of techniques including eating a lot of instant noodles, going on cheap dates and watching every penny. Alan recently got called out on some of his money saving techniques being unethical. Alan’s response is here (readers: let me hear your thoughts).
I don’t agree 100% with all of Alan’s budgetary measures- the popcorn trick seems dodgy to me. But, not addressing the calling out per se, there seems to be an underlining tone in western society that being frugal is somehow unbecoming of us. Haggling, a staple of cultures in other parts of the world, is seen as “low class” in the west. In some stores in China, haggling is being replaced by set prices as a symbolism of its growing middle class sensibility. We tend to mock those who save pennies and lauded those who spend beyond their means. Our economy is fueled by consumption and we are labeled unpatriotic if we don’t buy a SUV (Ben Bernanke: please stop lowering interest rates and throwing fuel into the inflationary fires; you can lead a spent consumer to water but you can’t make it drink from the credit pool).
I noticed when reporters review Alan’s book (note to media- remember he’s a comedian; literalism is not really the journalist bent you should be taking in this context) there’ s an underlying sub-text of “well, if it requires me being cheap to be a millionaire then I am not doing it since its so unbecoming darling.” Obviously, there’s a fine line to be drawn between being cheap and miser but, as a society, we really have our values backwards. We mock those who conserve and save (and, how ironic, that “green” is being used as a selling tool now) and, at the same time, complain about how broke we always are not putting two and two together.
Anyone ever get grief for being frugal? Is your partner frugal and its a source of tension? What’s the fine line between being frugal and just a financial kill-joy?

